A 1:1 Chat with Kathryn — Your Professional Matchmaker
We sat down with Kathryn, an expert matchmaker with a passion for guiding individuals toward serious relationships and lasting partnerships. Known as a connection connoisseur, she tailors every match with care, aligning connections to each person’s values and long-term goals. With a natural gift for building rapport and a deep admiration for love and human connection, Kathryn’s thoughtful, relationship-focused approach to matchmaking helps create meaningful, lasting bonds.
Interview Questions & Answers
Get to Know Your Matchmaker
“How did you become a matchmaker?”
“I was approached by someone who is now a dear friend and former client. He proposed partnering to create a matchmaking company offering one-on-one white glove matchmaking with personalized recruiting and coaching.”
"Can you describe your matchmaking style?"
“My matchmaking style is optimistic yet transparent, intuitive and heart-led. I work best with clients who appreciate guidance and support. If someone isn’t open to self-reflection, I probably wouldn’t be the right fit, since I believe looking inward is key to improving our experience with others.”
"What’s the one question you ask matchmaking clients to narrow down their must-haves in a potential partner?"
“I ask them to distinguish between non-negotiables and nice-to-haves. This helps clarify what truly is a deal breaker versus what would just be a bonus.”
"Is there a corresponding question or answer you are looking for from matches that clarifies they may be a good match for your client?"
“I look for alignment in core values—that’s key for a good match.”
"What is the best conversation starter you’ve ever used or received?"
"What are you currently learning about yourself?”
"What is something that you wish more people asked on first dates?"
“I wish more people asked on first dates is what someone is truly passionate about. It reveals a lot about who they are, how they operate, and their ambitions.”
“What do you think increases the likelihood of a second date?”
“Feeling a genuine connection, comfort, and curiosity to keep exploring each other.”
“What is a small dating gesture that instantly makes you feel appreciated?”
“A small gesture that makes me feel appreciated is when someone checks in after traveling separately to make sure I got home safely.”
"If someone is debating whether to use a matchmaker, how do you guide them?"
“In this role, when clients come to us, they are already committed to the adventure. My job is to support their journey with guidance, encouragement, and clarity.”
"How do you vet or screen potential matches?"
“I guide them through a conversation designed to uncover who they are beneath the surface. I focus on understanding their core values, worldview, and how they typically show up in relationships.”
"What is the key quality someone should look for in a matchmaker?"
“I look for three key qualities: emotional intelligence, optimism, and transparency combined with realism.”
"How do you know when it is time to introduce a new match to your client?"
“It depends on the service model. With white glove matchmaking, I always assess where my client is emotionally before making an introduction, since in-person connections require a deeper level of investment and readiness.”
"Do you specialize in a particular type of client or relationship goal?"
“I’ve worked with many polyamorous clients, but I prefer working with those seeking monogamous, long-term partnerships.”
"What is your favorite thing about being a matchmaker?"
“Bridging the gap between great people who may never have crossed paths otherwise.”
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Common questions about Christian Mingle matchmaking
Frequently Asked Questions
We understand you might have questions about our service. Here are answers to what people typically ask:
What makes Christian Mingle Matchmaking different from dating websites?
Instead of swiping alone, your personal Matchmaker is like a teammate, helping find quality matches to arranging introductions via quick, easy video dates. All you have to do is focus on making meaningful connections.
I'm not comfortable with technology. Is this for me?
Absolutely. Our platform is designed to be easy and intuitive no matter how tech-savvy you are.
How do you verify members?
Matchmakers personally interview every match they recommend, to make sure their profiles are accurate and authentic.
How does the video meeting process work?
We arrange comfortable video conversations from your home. Just sit back, relax, and let your Matchmaker find people to introduce you to.
What kind of support do you provide?
You receive:
• Personal guidance from your dedicated Matchmaker
• Regular communication on how the search is going
• Ongoing support and feedback on dates
How long does it typically take to meet people?
Everyone's journey is different, and we focus on quality over speed. Your Matchmaker will work at a pace that feels comfortable for you.
Who is this service for?
Christian Mingle Matchmaking is primarily for busy professionals that want to find love with the help of a dedicated matchmaker with access to the largest database of Christian singles.
What are the next steps after I purchase Christian Mingle Matchmaking?
After purchasing Christian Mingle Matchmaking, our matchmaker will arrange an intake call with you. This is to better comprehend your preferences and the type of person you're interested in meeting.
Is the setup process and matchmaking questions time-consuming?
The setup process is straightforward and efficient. It involves filling out your profile and preferences, then speaking with the matchmaker for the formal intake process, which typically takes between 30-45 minutes.
Can I specify particular attributes or interests for my matches?
Absolutely. During your conversation with the elite matchmaker, you'll have the opportunity to define specific attributes and interests you're looking for in potential matches.
Can I adjust my preferences after starting the service?
Certainly. It's common for clients to refine their preferences as they progress. Your matchmaker will work closely with you, noting what is and isn't effective in your search for your ideal match.
How does the matchmaker determine suitable matches for me?
Our experienced matchmakers consider your preferences, interests, and core values when interviewing potential prospects to assess compatibility and find your ideal match.
What happens if I don't get any matches I like?
If no matches are found, we'll reevaluate your preferences and collaborate with you to potentially broaden the pool of potential matches.
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